John, One word: Foreplay. Women desire foreplay and need it much more
than men. However, there is also a great benefit to this foreplay for
men that many men do not realize. Foreplay for men, allows men to reach
an initial arousal stage PRIOR to the actual sex act. Reaching this
initial arousal stage BEFORE you actually have sex, is ideal, because it
gives you
time to get aroused but not too aroused that you...
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